Saturday, December 15, 2007

26 ways to handle Gals

Twenty Six ways to Score Big with Women

1. Surprise her with flowers. Theywould say don't waste money but they actually do like it. It is the effort u make they appreciate. Unless they like diamonds better. (wahaha... i do prefer diamonds)

2. Resist the temptation to solve her problems.She just need a pair of listening hear. she can deal with all those problems herself somehow. (listening ear is pretty important)

3. Don't channel surf when she's watching TV with you.

4. When you are going to be late, call her. Tell her u feel heart pain making her wait. No faking must be sincere please. (at least.. dun make her worry)

5. Take short romantic getaways. It donot have to be candle light dinner at the beach. When Its love anywhere can be romantic i.e. suntanning together

6. Wash her car n not only your own. (it's the time spent together)

7. Get in bed at the same time, stop all consoles and computer activities. (do also keep each other updated in their daily life)

8. Pay more attention to her than others in public. She would feel respected and more loved unless she do not mind. (who dun love attention?)

9. Tell her how much you missed her when you were away. It is not embarrassing at all to tell someone u love that u miss her even if it is so many times per day. (it's sweet)

10. Treat her the way you did when you first met. This is one of the hardest but successful means LOVE.

11. Never forget her birthday. Definitely this would be the worse if you ever forget. It reflects how much she means to you. (if you ever forget, that's it)

12. When holding hands, don't let yr hand go limp. Hold her tightly, she can feel it but not break her hand pls.

13. Compliment her new look. She need that a lot. This also shows how important you are to her. (learn the right words to say)

14. When seeing her, give her a hug or kiss before doing anything else. It is actually quite a sweet thing to do.

15. Plan a date several days in advance. It can create the excitement, do it together. (this will also avoid disappointment when she has to work ot)

16. Offer help when she is tired.She would know u r paying attention to her and care for her. (simple massage will also do the trick)

17. Practice listening and ask questions. I think maybe more empathy skills.

18. Suggest a new restaurant. This show u put in effort to bring her around.

19. Open the door for her. (who dun love to be well taken care of?)

20. Take her side when she's upset with someone. This is a way to pamper her and make her feel better. You can always discuss with her the problem again when she is better if you feel she is at fault. (at least she knows you are listening)

21. Whenever you need to "Pull Away",let her know that you will be back. I know u need time to think through when there are problems n do not like to be disturb. Assure her n ask her to give you some time. (some time to cool down will b great)

22. Ask her how she is feeling. Let her know you are interested in knowing what she has been through during the day.

23. Make eye contact while listening, even when the topic bores you. (simple respect, mind you)

24. Bring her presents like a small box of candy or perfume. It do not have to be during special occasions. (chocolate will b great)

25. Give her a kiss and say good-bye when you leave. This really shows alot how much you love her and how much you want to stay on with her and not leave. (it's real sweet)

26. Never never take things for granted even though the action issmall. I.e. pouring a cup of water for you. Tell her you appreciate her doing all those little things for you.Waiting for you is also a very nice gesture. (nv start to take all this small gesture as granted. it's ur gf.. not your maid)

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